Men get married n easily

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Men who do not get married are scared of commitment and responsibility. Its never that they did not get the right girl. Have never heard of Men waiting for the Knight in shining armor or their Prince Charming. Sorry about the gender mix up. But I have yet to hear a man say the right girl will come when she has to. Men are hunters by nature. The jungle animals don't wait saying I wont eat this deer, I will wait for the right deer to come along. All this is reserved for the female sex of the human beings.


Why do men get married is for one simple reason. Love .....ha ha ha.
They get married because their friends get married. Men get married because of societal, parental and peer pressure. There are of course biological needs too. Like a friend quoted:
"I think the most logical reason would be that you feel so much lust for a person at that time, that you feel like you don't ever want to lose them. So you make sure they never leave you, by marrying them."
At times,Men also have the need to have intelligent conversations. They want to have a family. They want a companion. They do not want to be lonely. Except that men are not as fussy as women. They want the basics right and are willing to manage and adjust with the rest. Women want it all right at the word Go. Then as the saying goes, No risk, no gain. Women loose out on the good men. I am sure to have some women liberals gunning for my neck.

Why cant women be so cut and dry? Why can't women be logical like the men? Why do women think with their heart? Because of this emotional crap the women believe in, Women do 2/3 of the world's work, earn less than 10% of the world s income and own 1% of the world's property. Who said Life is fair?

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