Girl child

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I wake up in the morning and I cant bear to look at the newspapers. If I see stuff in the morning, it plays on my mind the whole day.
Photographer Shadab Khan got a prize in some competition because he clicked a foetus lying on the road of Mahim. What's the big deal ? As a child, we had a nursing home which had come up near our house for a short while and we used to see this kind of stuff all the time. Sometimes even a dog chewing at one, as the garbage was dumped outside the nursing home. If clicking gross pictures of death gives one awards then this is the time to go to Japan.
Scary to hear how we kill the girl child in the womb. I had always read Haryana n some northern states of India having a skewed boy girl ratio. Now Mumbai is in the same category. I would have thought that Mumbai has educated people and a huge population of working women. Atleast one of the couple must be tenth pass and would think differently. They'd pray for a healthy baby and sex of the baby would not be important. Feel sad that it is not so. Even mothers of my generation or young Moms all want a baby boy. I have yet to hear someone say I want a baby girl as my first child.
There are gynaecologists who advise you on how to have a male offspring. They dont just get their fees but baksheesh worth lakhs of rupees for providing a waaris/heir to the family. The poor living in the slums also want a baby boy for their own reasons. Crimes against women keep increasing inspite of women being bread winners, educated etc.
Just where are we heading towards? Do we as a nation have a vision ? Sovereign, Socialist,Secular Republic are just words in the Preamble of the Constitution. It does talk of equality of caste, creed n sex. Then why are women so keen to abort their girl child and have a son ? The father who sleeps with a women , whose mother is a women, eeven he doesn't want a women. The grandmothers n grand aunts all women themselves are so vehement about having a son.
What is the bra burning feminist doing ? So called bohemian artists who attend charity events what charity do they do ? For that matter , what am I doing ?

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